I want you to Disappoint More People
I'm Sandy.
I am a recovering people pleaser. I spent way too much time in my life worrying about what other people thought. Spoiler alert: most of them weren't thinking about me at all - they were too busy worrying about what people thought of them!
I know I am in good company. Most of the women I work with have internalized messages that keep them locked in a pattern that begins with wanting to be liked and ends with feeling resentful, frustrated and overwhelmed with their lives. Sound familiar?
When you take responsibility for other people and how they might feel you end up living a life that doesn't reflect who you are or what you want. It's time to recover yourself!
I'm here to guide you. I can't promise it will be comfortable but I will tell you the transformation you will experience in your life when you start living your own life will be worth it!
I'll help you learn to listen to yourself so you can speak truthfully (and it will set you free).
Are you tired of:
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feeling overwhelmed?
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people-pleasing?
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saying 'yes' when you would like to 'no'?
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repeating the same patterns?
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feeling resentful and frustrated?
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not pursuing the things you really want to do?
What would it feel like to put yourself first?
Do you feel guilty or selfish just thinking about that question?
If you want to make some changes and you feel stuck by your current circumstances I'm here to support you. If you struggle with people-pleasing, being practical or paralysis - I get it! You can move from being held captive by your fear of rejection or abandonment into the life you want. Think of all the money you'll save on travel!
Live life on your terms
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Why I can help...
I'm a recovering people-pleaser. I know how difficult it is to say no when someone I care about needs something. I like to be liked. But being liked can get in the way of making choices that bring joy to your life.
I understand the conditioning that shapes us as women into being compliant caretakers who put everyone else's needs before their own. We feel guilty when we finally say what we want or need.
I'm here to help you identify your terms and conditions for the life you want to live. It takes courage and confidence to do this work.
Take responsibility for your life and let other people have the responsibility back to live their own life.
